Why is it that guys seem to think the asshole approach will get you the lady?

ie. being insulting towards woman and her car, giving the whole sexist girls know nothing about cars and shouldn't be driving blah blah blah

how...the heck...do guys act like this and expect us ladies to throw themselves at their pants?

And then get all offended when we don't...and we shoot them down.

Honestly, wtf??? I figure since the vast majority of y'all are males maybe some of you can help me figure out this non-car related query.

Alot of girls like assholes. Mostly the girls with low self-esteem... Obviously you have a healthy opinion of yourself, so good on you!

I just find it sad that this healthy opinion of myself took too long to come into effect.

and it came into effect cause i have an ol high school sweetie comin to visit me in a month! yay!!! so, yeah, over the next month, i'm gonna be insanely insanely in a good mood...then bitterly saddened again when he leaves. just a heads up.

It's the whole "pull on the pigtails of the girl you like" thing. Either they're looking for a girl with no self esteem, like matt said, or they're not mature enough to realize that the real way into a girls pants is to charm them off her...

wow, it's a good thing that you didn't make it out to that meet a couple wednesdays ago then...if you had it in your mind to start pants-charming!

Hmmm...you notice how many guys like that are single? Ever wonder why? Oh yeah...you figured it out...

Respect is a wonderful thing, isn't it?

I laugh at how few boys understand that. Honestly, I do.

I don't go to the bars anymore because of this....seeing all these guys trying to pick up girls and it just disgusts me. I'm a firm believer of actually respecting a girl and doing the whole treating them nicely, yes, even after the mishap of before.

mishap of before?

Andy, must I hunt some chick down for being evil to ya?

nope, its all been sorted out. She sent a message a couple months ago trying to keep in touch and I just told her to stop talking to me. Saw her at a friends bday last month and kept my mouth closed so its all good.

much love to ya andy, someday, you'll find the unicorn known as a lesser-drama-causing-female.

haha this is a funny thread title...Kat i'll have to tell you a story over msn sometime

it's a beauty

ciao

go for it...just a warning though i pretty much live in busy mode...so the rule of thumb is feel free to message me. If I reply, I'm around. If not...I got distracted by something shiny.

Just don't message me during business hours mon-fri...then i'm at work and not home at all lol

(oh yes, scary sighting today...saw another red s70!!! gasp!!! didn't have the spoiler though...so my car remains unique!!!)

...let it be known there is not enough alcohol in the world to allow me to put up with boys.

except y'all. volvo drivers are a different breed of men.

but still. good god!

Yeah...well we're men...see...