Hi - been reading here for an hour.... I just have a simple question,

and better ask it before I get going: After seeing the pics of Dustin's cross-member with the holes on top spreading-out from the shock, I installed my shocks yesterday. My simple question is: how much to I crank-down the bolts on top and bottom? I'm using bilsteins and I'm told now that they are going to be a little stiff, but I guess I can't help that now.
BTW: I'm putting the bolts back in that were there in the first-place, and they are not grade 8 -I guess the shock should take most of the er.... shock?
I have pics of the car, but can't find the cable to download 'em (yet).
Thanks all.